Sheldon wrote to my parents as well. This is a portion of his letter:
I have learned that many of those who are molested react with shame. Although they are the victim, they blame themselves. This encourages secrecy and prevents disclosure; thus, the abuse continues. Only the truth revealed can set people free and begin the process of healing. Even this process of healing can bring glory to God.
I have seen that God often brings instant forgiveness and healing of our spirits, but the healing of our bodies and souls usually takes time, even a lifetime. Deep wounds leave scars.
Someone I know had surgery as a child to repair a hole in his heart. His parents were told by the surgeon that the repair -- the scar -- would become the strongest part of his heart.
I take comfort in that.
